Hi all ...this might be a bit long...sorry. My husband and I have been together for eight yrs now. He drives cross country every week. Up until about a month ago I would never have thought is be in the situation I'm in now. My DH schedule was off one day due to Memorial Day...he usually leaves every Wednesday but that week he didn't leave till Thursday. So on that Wed am his ph was sitting out and a text popped up from a woman "when r u driving?" Now I know of this woman b/c he sold a used car of ours to her in December 2013 ...back in dec he told me a friend of a friend got them in contact b/c she needed a car and we had one to sell. That was only time I knew at the time they had contact and he's never spoke of her since. Then a 2nd text popped up "yo call me...". My gut said oh hell no...this woman is way too familiar w/my DH schedule. I just stuffed it down and said to self it can't be. Let me say I've NEVER gone thu DH PH. Well the next week while he was home sleeping he had several missed calls from her so yup I went they ph...all texts from her deleted so I went to our cel records and saw that he's been texting/calling her for last 10 months. He would call/text her before me while he was on road...the texting very excessive 1200 per/mo. When I confronted him he blew me off and got very defensive saying she's just a friend. I told him I have no problem w/ his female friends that I know but this is different...he kept it secret...I ales him to stop talking to her but he won't.
on Jul. 2, 2014 at 1:02 PM