Ok, so my 8yo DS is a treasure finder and he found a pair of Hello Kitty shoes and was very excited that they fit. He really wanted to wear them so I said that hecould wear them to the Pride parade last weekend. On our way there I took some pics of him in the shoes and I posted them on Facebook. Now almost a week later some of my family members are still making a really big deal about them and saying that he shouldn't be wearing girl shoes (but nobody say a thing when I wear men's shoes) and saying that it is odd and asking if I am trying to mke some sort of statement. I am so frustrated that I was in tears over this last night and I really don't know how to handle this. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance.