I was I think an serial cheater. After he turned 40 he said no more sex. I had always enjoyed myself-apparently more than he did. So basically if a nice looking guy or the bad boy would get it from me. My friends called me "Pollyanna" since I sounded so nice when I wasn't actually. I made sure it was never in our town and never told-he may have suspected but could never prove it but I figure he made his self unavailable but not me.