(Please read all the way through.) My father, he's not a darling, or dear, was sexually abusive to me when I was a child (not looking for sympathy, I have dealt with it and put it behind me.) He served his time. (15 yrs) He never touched my brother, he is now back home with my mother, please don't bash her, she can't take care of herself, so she took him back. I have 3 ds, no dd, so my boys have been allowed to spend the night at my parents and go camping with Grandpa. I would definitely feel different if I did have any dd, I would not allow her around him. But he is actually a great grandparent to my boys, he has never touched them. Anyways, I recently found out that my father likes to go to local parks and watch kids play baseball, as I did when I was young. I know it brings back better memories, but it worries me what other thoughts he may have with other little girls running around. He was never a predator, I was the only one. But it still worries me. I do not spend time with or talk to my father, he has not changed, I know this from personal experience when he said some inappropriate things to me a few years back. So yes, my fear is valid. He is a sick man. I don't think there is anything I can do about it since he hasn't done anything to anyone else. What would you do knowing this about a family member?
on Aug. 14, 2014 at 11:21 AM