I'm due any day now and my husband, God love him, is driving me up the freaking wall! He keeps going on about how when I'm delivering, we need to make sure the doctors or nurses do this or don't do that. He keeps telling me how far I need to go before I call for meds, IF I call for them at all, and he keeps insisting that I won't need them because I'm "tougher than that." He's making me feel pressured, stressed, and bullied, even, about the choices I've made with my birthing plan and he doesn't seem to get that a plan is just a plan and may be thrown out the window at any time should something come up. My first husband sat down in the cafeteria while I delivered and I resented him at the time for it but now I feel like I should thank him because my current husband, UGH. I don't think I want him in the room with me when I deliver.
Did you have your SO in the delivery room with you?