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Anonymous
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If your husband had a sexual/emotional affair, had himself and his mistress try to tear you down emotionally, then you forgive and try to move on once t they end it, but your husband is always looking at beautiful women on line like on a daily.
You catch him liking an acquaintance pictures on line.
You mention with tears how much it hurts you, but he still keeps on.
He gets mad and tells you how sick he is of this situation.
Sleeps in the living room with the excuse that the he can't wake up for work in the morning if he sleeps on the bed.
Would you think that I'm looking into it too much?
Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 1, 2014 at 5:53 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 1, 2014 at 5:59 PM
I know you all think I'm an idiot. But this guy has toyed with my mind so much i don't know anything anymore
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 1, 2014 at 6:19 PM
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OMG, he needs to leave.  Kick his ass out.  You need to get away from his abuse and get counseling.  Just do it. 

Rust.n.Gears
by Member on Sep. 1, 2014 at 6:21 PM
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Get rid of him !!! You deserve better. Its time to upgrade to a real man instead of a dog.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Sep. 1, 2014 at 6:22 PM
Sounds like my ex. Leave him and get some counseling so you can start thinking clearly again.
Rust.n.Gears
by Member on Sep. 1, 2014 at 6:23 PM
Yes you do. You know this is wrong. You are showing that. Don't let him take that and twist it so you feel wrong. Your instincts are there to protect you. You are doing great. Now hold onto that.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I know you all think I'm an idiot. But this guy has toyed with my mind so much i don't know anything anymore
Sarah_Moore
by Member on Sep. 1, 2014 at 11:47 PM
This momma hit the nail right on the head. Go with what she has told you please.

Quoting Rust.n.Gears: Yes you do. You know this is wrong. You are showing that. Don't let him take that and twist it so you feel wrong. Your instincts are there to protect you. You are doing great. Now hold onto that.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I know you all think I'm an idiot. But this guy has toyed with my mind so much i don't know anything anymore
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Sep. 2, 2014 at 12:26 AM

this is your side of the story. im going to be neutral. yes i did read your story, but why is he doing this? we have to understand, their are things we do as women, that can annoy a man to the point to were he finds attention else where. we never take the time to figure out what we did wrong or too much of to get them to this point.

DensHag
by Member on Sep. 2, 2014 at 12:28 AM
He's gas lighting you. I'd tell him to GTFO.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 2, 2014 at 1:15 AM
I do everything for him. The thing that might piss him off is that after weeks of silence and putting up a front of being happy I finally blow a fuse and let him have it. I'm only human and I'm at the breaking point.

Quoting Anonymous 4:

this is your side of the story. im going to be neutral. yes i did read your story, but why is he doing this? we have to understand, their are things we do as women, that can annoy a man to the point to were he finds attention else where. we never take the time to figure out what we did wrong or too much of to get them to this point.

butzi
by Member on Sep. 2, 2014 at 9:41 AM
We have no control over someone else's behavior. Nothing he does causes you to yell, scream, hit, watch porn, cheat or anything else. Same goes for you... Nothing you can do cause him to behave in a crappy manner. So since the only person you can control is you, focus on that. If you are uncomfortable with the bottling things up then blowing up, work on that. See a counselor, with the specific therapeutic goals of working on communication, and maybe exploring why you don't deserve better.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I do everything for him. The thing that might piss him off is that after weeks of silence and putting up a front of being happy I finally blow a fuse and let him have it. I'm only human and I'm at the breaking point.

Quoting Anonymous 4:

this is your side of the story. im going to be neutral. yes i did read your story, but why is he doing this? we have to understand, their are things we do as women, that can annoy a man to the point to were he finds attention else where. we never take the time to figure out what we did wrong or too much of to get them to this point.

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