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Can it work?

Anonymous
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Can a relationship/engagement work out if you still have feelings for your ex,still miss them and still want them in your life and going behind your SO back to talk to them.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 18, 2017 at 4:04 PM
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momof337
by Stephanie on Apr. 18, 2017 at 4:44 PM
That will catch up to a person
zeesmuse
by Bronze Member on Apr. 19, 2017 at 7:36 AM

Nope. That will garner you some seriously bad juju. Get over your ex before you start another relationship.

BL2010
by BL on Apr. 19, 2017 at 11:41 AM

No, it won't work if you have to keep it a secret from your current partner. If you both have feelings, still, for each other, you can't be in a good, strong relationship with someone else.

Snoeblind
by New Member on Apr. 20, 2017 at 6:14 PM

No, nope, nada. If you feel that strong towards your ex then how can you have a loving, caring and commited relationship with your BF. How can he trust you. If he was doing the same behind your back how would you feel? Think about that and you'll have your answer.

MonarchMom22
by on Apr. 20, 2017 at 6:17 PM

All the things you describe are "feeding" the old relationship and making it stronger.  If you want the current relationship to work, nuture it and stop pursuing the old. 

Feelings change all the time.  Wherever you put your energy is where you are headed. 

anotherandree
by Member on Apr. 20, 2017 at 6:44 PM
Why would you want it to work? Be with the one your heart wants.
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