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whats your secret????

megan479

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on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:32 PM

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whats one (or more than one) thing that you keep a secret from your SO?  i'll start:

I cant stand the show MASH....i dont know why....and i wont tell him because he watches it all the time, but i cant stand it.

edit: i meant this to be fun.....i dont keep big things from my so, but i think all of us have those little things that we keep from them just because w dont want to hurt them, or just because its not really that big of a deal.

Written by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:32 PM

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  • lilmaiyagirl
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:33 PM
  • Nothing, I don't keep secrets from him and he doesn't keep any from me either. To us that is dishonest and Honesty is a key in our marriage, along with respect and communication.We think it is disrespectful to keep secrets from one another.

    “Submissives need to be told what to do. Slaves need to do what they are told.” Unknown

  • Laura4807
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:33 PM
  • I was really born a boy.

    ...just kidding. lol

    I have ONE big secret from him, I cant share though.... because I have a lil mini stalker on here that likes to call and "report" what I say & do on cafemom. we both find it pretty amusing.

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  • GOBryan
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:39 PM
  • I don't really keep secrets from him.. I prepare the bills and I may not tell him about the funds unless he asks. 

    I try to be his motivator in business and he does his best to provide for all of us.  

  • anetrnlov
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:40 PM
  • This....

    Quoting lilmaiyagirl:

    Nothing, I don't keep secrets from him and he doesn't keep any from me either. To us that is dishonest and Honesty is a key in our marriage, along with respect and communication.We think it is disrespectful to keep secrets from one another.



  • ajh629
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:51 PM
  • i have a certain aspect of my younger life that i don't choose to discuss with my husband, or with anyone for that matter...i don't feel like its a secret so much that i am keeping but  more something in my past that doesn't have much bearing on my life today...but, since i don't even talk about it with my husband and family i am certainly not about to spill it here...lol!

  • FoxyRoxy
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:53 PM
  • This is a secret I keep to myself but willing to share. When my husband is not around and Im horny witch is barly ever, I kinda get turned on by lesbien porn. I dont know Y. And I dont think I would ever be with a women. After reliving myself I feel the oposite like all the sudden Im not into lesbien girls. So weird and I wish it would go away or something. I dont know what to do about it. Has anyone els had this problem and got over it?

     

  • tirelessefforts
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 6:59 PM
  • When DH came home from war I hadn't seen him outside of a computer for so long (about a year) I started to walk towards someone else  when they unloaded the buses because I didn't recognize him.  I felt really bad but I never told him because I thought it might hurt his feelings lol

  • megan479
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 7:13 PM
  • i havent had that problem....

    Quoting FoxyRoxy:

    This is a secret I keep to myself but willing to share. When my husband is not around and Im horny witch is barly ever, I kinda get turned on by lesbien porn. I dont know Y. And I dont think I would ever be with a women. After reliving myself I feel the oposite like all the sudden Im not into lesbien girls. So weird and I wish it would go away or something. I dont know what to do about it. Has anyone els had this problem and got over it?


  • megan479
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 7:14 PM
  • ya, i would fel bad too.  i felt stupid the other day when we drove up behind someone, i thought it was one of our friends, and i honkd the horn to scare them as a joke......well, it wasnt him....

    Quoting tirelessefforts:

    When DH came home from war I hadn't seen him outside of a computer for so long (about a year) I started to walk towards someone else  when they unloaded the buses because I didn't recognize him.  I felt really bad but I never told him because I thought it might hurt his feelings lol


  • nikkiJ86
  • by on Jul. 3, 2009 at 7:40 PM
  • Me and my SO play fight a lot when we are bored.But what he doesn't know is when I'm fighting him,I'm not really playing.I get to get him back for all the times he did something to me that made me mad,without him knowing.And it feels sooo good,lol.

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