What if you cheated?

[MOMMY1411]

Well I've been dating this guy for 8 yrs now...in the 8 yrs. he has cheated at least twice.I left him and he came back begging me over and over so I took him back...the next time I left him again and this time he cried and took me in front of a church and proposed to me and promise me that wouldnt happend again...a couple of months ago I met this guy who is so sweet and I we have kissed once....yikes...what should I do?Should I let this guy go?

[jendawn1]

its really up to you and how you feel.No one can tell youwhats best for you, sorry.

[atlmom2]

For me, cheating is unforgivable.  I will be married 25 year in 10 days and if he cheated I would dump his ass, no questions ask.  I cannot ever forgive that, never. 

Sounds like you have had a rocky 8 years and need to decide. 

[SweetCandyGirl]

my advice is to just figure out what you want and decide. It is not fair to play with peoples emotions. I dont agree with cheating but at some point in your relationship with man #1 he cheated and broke that boundary, and now so have you. So there is nothing someone can say other then hope it gets better and that everyone involved is ok in the end.

[jessiet143]

i feel for you, i really do i have been cheated on and know how much it sucks. but my honest answer is that it isnt ok for you to cheat. when you take him back you are basically forgiving him, not forgetting, but forgiving. if you do it to him it doesnt make it any better it just puts you on his level. if this new guy is all you have been looking for you should break it off with your fiance and give it a chance, it may be the push you need toget away from the cheater. its always easier when you have someone else there for you. i wish you the best!