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Dcameron4267

May. 8, 2008 at 11:31 PM by Dcameron4267
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How do you feel about kids having two mothers in modern society? I dont mean mom and step mom...I mean two of them in a relationship? I guess what Im trying to get at is people seem to think that its a "bad" thing. How bad can it be if we love our children unconditionally?

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8Drea8

by 8Drea8 on May. 8, 2008 at 11:33 PM

I think it is absolutely fine. People need to get past those issues these days. as long as a child parents love them and are great people, it shouldn't matter what sexual orientation they have...
Dcameron4267

by Dcameron4267 on May. 8, 2008 at 11:34 PM


Quoting 8Drea8:

I think it is absolutely fine. People need to get past those issues these days. as long as a child parents love them and are great people, it shouldn't matter what sexual orientation they have...

Thank you! We need more people like you in our community!!!!
midgewits

by midgewits on May. 8, 2008 at 11:37 PM

There is nothing wrong with it at all. People need to get over it, and accept it. What is better than a mother's love....x2!? LOL!
roodae_momma

by roodae_momma on May. 8, 2008 at 11:39 PM

i think that it is fine. my opinion is that it their life they should be able to live it the way that they want to and have the same rights that everyone else has, its like tellin a mormon he cant be mormon or a christian that they cant be christian, its a way of life and people need to grow the f@*& up and deal with it.
K8himon

by K8himon on May. 8, 2008 at 11:42 PM

My best friend of like 12 yrs mom is gay...I remember the day she told me...she was so scared. We were walking and she thought I was gonna walk away from her LOL big step to take and talk about for some 11 yr olds.

Her mom is really happy though, and the woman she is with, is well...scary at times LOL but a nice woman too...I grew up next door to them and are still to this day poppin in their house once in awhile to say hi.

Lfmk

by Lfmk on May. 8, 2008 at 11:48 PM

I am a "to each his own kind of person" and lets face it there are lots of kids who are in bad homes so if you can make a good one with whom ever you choose hats off to you.  But lets be real, there are a lot of shallow minded people in this world who will tease and ridacule the poor child so you need to prepare them for that.
sallymoon

by sallymoon on May. 9, 2008 at 2:09 AM

If both mothers love the child unconditionally, that can't be anything but good.

Pigletsmommy129

by Pigletsmommy129 on May. 9, 2008 at 2:13 AM

I totally agree. I have met a couple guys in my life that were raised by two mothers and I think it's great, they have more respect for women. And we need more men like that in the world.
Quoting 8Drea8:

I think it is absolutely fine. People need to get past those issues these days. as long as a child parents love them and are great people, it shouldn't matter what sexual orientation they have...
GoTeamBunny

by GoTeamBunny on May. 9, 2008 at 2:24 AM

A family is a family and it's what you make it (if that makes sense).  As long as the child is loved and well taken care of, I don't see a problem.  Some kids don't have any family at all.  There's so much more to worry about in today's world than petty stuff like that.  JMO...

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karischub

by karischub on May. 9, 2008 at 2:31 AM

As long as it's a loving home I don't think gender should matter. I have two father-in-laws and I worry about the children's reactions when she goes to school. It stinks that there are so many judgemental people out there.

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