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What are the risks?

Posted by on Nov. 22, 2008 at 9:18 AM
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Hi ladies.  I have a question or two.  I just had a miscarriage November 10th.  It was quite early in the pregnancy and I did not have a D&C.  My hCG level as of last Wednesday (Nov. 19th) was 11.  The OB said she thought I probably wouldn't have a period "on time," but I have to say I feel like I'm going to ovulate soon.  I'm going to be 40 in a couple of months and don't want to wait to ttc again if I don't have to.  The OB said to wait one cycle to "let my body get back to normal," but didn't tell me (and I didn't think to ask at the time) what the risks are if I was to get pregnant right away.  Can anyone help me out here?   Are there any risks if I was to get pg right away?  If so, what are they?  Has anyone gotten pg right after a m/c?  Did you have a healthy baby?  Thanks!

Posted by on Nov. 22, 2008 at 9:18 AM
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scarmor
by on Dec. 3, 2008 at 12:43 PM

My first son was conceived right after my second miscarriage at age 39.  I didn't wait and did not have a period in between (only the miscarriage bleeding).  I had a completely uncomplicated pregnancy and delivery.  My son is now a very healthy 2 year old.  I don't believe there are risks involved with getting pregnant right away.  I believe they tell you to wait for your own emotional healing and to be able to know dates (when you ovulated, last menstrual period, etc.)  I say - GO FOR IT!! 

Sally

jeni0323
by on Jan. 8, 2009 at 4:13 PM

You dont have to wait. They just say to so you make sure your ok after the loss. I didnt wait to get pregnant after my last miscarriage in July we didnt realyy try to get pregnant either but Im now just about 23 weeks pregnant with a baby boy. Do what feels right for you. Just make she you have stopped bleeding from the miscarriage before trying again.

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afwifeandmommy1
by on Jan. 9, 2009 at 5:35 PM

thsi post hit it right where i wanted it. i jus found today that i m having a miscarriage from a chemical pregnancy. i was wondering the same thing. dr told me to wait a couple of cycles.. but never told me why.. thanks for this post. it has really helped me out.  i do know sometimes when u have a d and c they say to wait so ur body can heal itself, but thanks again for thsi post.. good luck on ttc

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