Boys V's Girls

[LMBecher]

So who do you think is easier to raise? Girls? or Boys?
For me it's been my son, age 11, excluding his ADHD he was a very athletic person who was very good in baseball he could switch hit, awesome in soccer, and needed some practice basketball but was good. All of a sudden he stopped playing, Why? His Bio father took no interest in him playing even thought his step-father of half his life at the time was his couch and took pride in teaching him and got very involved with his sports took interest in it. All because his Bio Father took no interest he stopped, it sucks because this boy has some good talent if he would just apply it he would be awesome. Also trying to get him to acknowledge that education is the Key to a good life, once again a part of his Bio Father kicks into play, he didn't graduate the 9th grade, boy can I pick the winners, it took five years to find but found one. It's hard when you have  dead beat parent who doesn't care if his child succeeds or not in anything and to have his child look to him as a role model. Every day we go over and over the importance of education and doing well in life so that he doesn't end up like his father, who is 27 almost 28 no job lives with his younger brother who has a full time good job, and have his parents who he caused to get a divorce still pay for everything, like his clothes his food his car they bought him. I have to remind my son that I am not his grandparents and that will not stand in my house at all, at 18 your out with a job unless your in some type of college. So all I can do is hope he makes the right decisions in time.
So far for girls, my daughter is only three and I nanny two young boys she has an older brother and uncle and well she takes up after the boys, she has some girlishness to her but not much so it's been pretty easy.