get it off my chest

[ariesp19]

i know that sometimes we just need to vent, and dont really care for a response, we just want to get something off our chest... i also know that these can be taken wrong, or out of context, so let have this tread be one of those that you can vent all you want, and dont expect a response, but its just to get something of your chest!!!

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[cassi_d_m]

Alright, well I really hate the fact that my ex thinks that we have to go by his rules in everything that has to do with my daughter.  He doesn't pay child support, he barely has anything to do with her whatsoever, so what gives him the right to demand that things be done his way? 

Also I am hating the fact that Tyson might be stuck in Oregon for weekend.  That really blows!  At least he has a sleeper so I know that he has somewhere to sleep!

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[luvz129]

i may get in trouble for someone on cm knowing who im talkin about but seriously i dont know what to do~ i am more than upset about a family member in my family and i wont get into context, im just really upset, im doin what i think it great for my family and what i have been told by professionals to do, please message me if u think u have advice with addiction, im so lost and (in another post said im huge into intuition) i know this isnt the end of it and im my heart i cant forgive if someone doesnt think they are wrong and or even see where it can be fixed!! ahh ive never been so upset in my life! i live, eat, breathe these issues and im not sure what to do! i just dont want to see rock bottom being something real serious, im ready to see a medium or something because i cant handle it anymore~ :(

[cassi_d_m]

I don't understand what is going on, but I wish you luck!  Just remember that what is going to happen will happen, no matter what you do.  And everything will turn out in the end the way it is suppose to be, even if you don't like how it is right now!

Quoting luvz129:

i may get in trouble for someone on cm knowing who im talkin about but seriously i dont know what to do~ i am more than upset about a family member in my family and i wont get into context, im just really upset, im doin what i think it great for my family and what i have been told by professionals to do, please message me if u think u have advice with addiction, im so lost and (in another post said im huge into intuition) i know this isnt the end of it and im my heart i cant forgive if someone doesnt think they are wrong and or even see where it can be fixed!! ahh ive never been so upset in my life! i live, eat, breathe these issues and im not sure what to do! i just dont want to see rock bottom being something real serious, im ready to see a medium or something because i cant handle it anymore~ :(

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[ariesp19]

ok, i soooooo know its not true, but i sooooooooooo feel like i clean 24 7!!!!lol... i just got up(sort of)and i have to get to cleaning!!!and i have to clean good!!! jeremys squad sgt is comeing by sometime next week(could be monday, dont know)....she wants to .... inspect?... his residence, and how he lives..... he tells me, dont worry too much, and i just dont get how he cant get, that this place does need to be cleaned!! i know its not horrible, but how the house looks tends to reflect more on the wife, then the man, (and saddly thats true even if they BOTH work full time jobs, )...... i know my house is presentable, and all thats really on the flur are toys, but i dont know if she will want to look at our bedrooms(aidans is fine, but ours is were everything just goes... you know, that :just put that in the bedroom" thing, lol....) or our spare room, that were turning into the babys room, so its got boxes we need to unpack, and some baby cloths we need to lounder, and some we still need to sort, and some we need to hang up, and put away.... as we all know, with a toddler, this job that would normally just take a day or so to do both bedrooms, will take a week, if not more, and in that time, i get my dh making a mess AGAIN of the bedroom..... so while i HAVE been doing bit by bit everyday, while aidan is nappy, or actually letting me do things, i still have a bit to go, and only today and tomorrow... geer..... i guess i should get off the puter, and get to it..... saddly, aidan is not the only one inturpting me..., i also STILL, yes still, at 6 months, have morning sickness, so have to take breaks often!!! geer....
this is just a vent really, i do not need replies, lol..... we mothers all get this way, weather we stay at home, or have full time jobs, or are single, the burden of house cleaning seems to always fall on us, and even if the men do help(lucky me, on his days of jeremy will, he just does not get many days off) when someone sees our houses, it automatically reflects on the women!! ......

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[ariesp19]

i was gone most of the day, helping out a friend, and got home about 7 30.... my hubs  put aidan down befor i got home... why could he not wait till either 8, or i got home?? or even called to see if id be home soon?? i barly got to see my son, and i hate not getting or giving a good night kiss!!! that just really irked me.... 7 3  is not his bed time... its 730 to 8, IF HE DID NOT GET A NAP, and he did get his nap... i really wish he could have waited...

[ariesp19]

geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeer
i am so sick of hereing the debate of birthmom vs step mom!!!! im so sick of hereing the complaints of birthmoms being bitches, or even vise versa.....
god, thats just soooooooooooo anoying.....