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Loss.....Sad News

Mommy_A.J
posted to General Discussion in EMS MOMS
on Jul. 4, 2009 at 4:03 AM

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I have sad news....I wish this never happened and I hope that none of you ever have to go through this..........

On 7/03/2009 at 1:23 am I miscarried my twins, David Allan D. IV and Alexander James Trey D. I was 13 weeks along when I lost them. the reasons for the miscarridge are still unknown.

~ Heather and David

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Mommy_A.J

on Jul. 4, 2009 at 4:03 AM

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- angelic-smiles
on Jul. 4, 2009 at 4:12 AM
I AM SO VERY SORRY TO HEAR THAT AND I KNOW IT CANT BE EASY I ALMOST MISCARRIED MY YOUNGEST DAUGHTER WHO IS NOW 4 MONTHS OLD BUT I KNOW WHEN IT WAS GOING ON I WAS SO SCARED AND UPSET I DIDNT SLEEP WELL FOR DAYS I HAD TO GO THROUGH EXTENSIVE TESTING JUST TO SEE IF I WAS STILL PREGNANT OR NOT IT TOOK DAYS FOR THE RESULTS AND I COULDNT WAIT TIL THEY CAME IN IT WAS ALMOST LIKE I NEEDED TO KNOW ONE WAY OR THE OTHER SO I COULD EITHER BE HAPPY ABOUT IT OR JUST GO ON AND GREIVE ABOUT IT. I FELT SO LOST FOR DAYS AND WHEN THE RESULTS CAME IT I FOUND OUT I WAS INDEED STILL PREGNANT AND THE ONLY THING I COULD THINK WAS IT WAS EITHER A BLOOD VESSEL ON THE END OF MY CERVIX THAT BURST LIKE IT DID WHEN I WAS PREGNANT WITH MY FIRST DAUGHTER OR I WAS PREGNANT WITH TWINS AND MISCARRIED ONE OF THEM THAT IS SOMETHING I WILL NEVER KNOW THE ANSWER TO. JUST DONT GIVE UP AND KNOW THAT EVERYTHING DOES HAPPEN FOR A REASON AND THOUGH IT MAY NOT BE CLEAR THE REASON WHY NOW IT MIGHT BECOME CLEARER DOWN THE ROAD. GOOD LUCK AND DONT DRIVE YOURSELF TO DEPRESSION JUST WORRYING ABOUT IT BECAUSE YOU COULD DRIVE YOUR HEALTH TO THE POOR HOUSE IN THE PROCESS!

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- angiko97
on Jul. 4, 2009 at 10:33 AM
Im so sorry to hear that! Take care of yourself...we're all here if you need anything
Angie Austin Hannah Kalli Addisyn

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- beaugrl0824
on Jul. 5, 2009 at 1:13 AM
hugs and prayers for you and your family

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- Mommy_Foster
on Jul. 5, 2009 at 11:32 PM
Hey sista....
I know how you are feeling. We lost a baby last Oct at 9 weeks. It was devastating to both of us. Please know that it is NOT your fault. Nothing you did do or could have done would have made a difference. You will most likely never know what cause the M/C.... but find peace in knowing that time will heal your wounds. You will NEVER forget your babies or ever stop loving them.... but you will find ways to find joy in life again.
Here to chat if you want to.... Hugs. Take care of yourself.
Ash