Hello. My name is Salina. My husband is not military, but he just got asked to consider relocating to Honolulu. We have 3 girls ages 11, 7, and 5. Neither of us have ever been to Hawaii before and we would never move to somewhere that we have never been. So my question is, how do you like it in Hawaii? Honolulu? How are the school, crime, housing, and shopping? Anything I should know? Also we are currently living in Oakley Ca. Thanks.