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I need some advice for my friend here......
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on Oct. 4, 2009 at 10:18 PM
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My friend is gorgeous! I'm not saying that bc she's my friend, she IS! It's funny bc we've always been jealous of each others looks! lol! Anyway, I want to help her with something she's going through with this guy thing she's having but I just don't know how or what to say! Although she is as beautiful as she is guys just don't hit on her. They hit on her friends when we all go out but not her, or they talk to her all night but ask for her friends number! She's not upset with any of her friends she just wants a guy to want HER number, and want hers FIRST not when he finds out someone else is interested in her friend or when the friend shoots him down. It seems like she's always second choice I guess you could say.. She told me she's just tired of this happening all the time and its hard for her self esteem to stay up when it does happen so often. And i had no advice to give her really other than guys suck! But I mean, I get her point and she is right....why don't guys hit on her? she's beautiful! i can't figure it out either.....any tips or advice on what to tell her?
she told me tonight she's tried not to let it bother her but its really starting to wear her down......
ADVICE PLEASE!
Mommie's little baby doll!!
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- by on Oct. 5, 2009 at 4:01 PM
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I grew up with guys and every one has told me that sometimes it's hardest to ask a "pretty girl" out. It's not that they don't like her, or think that she is unattractive BY ANY MEANS but they think that they will get shot down. A few of my friends and family (guy wise) have also said that they have gone for the pretty ones before and get ROYALLY screwed in the end, they might be going through that, thinking that she might be to high maintenance and mean and don't want to take that chance again.... (not saying that's your friend, but a guy might think that before getting to know her). Or, another thing, she might be being to shy or not being assertive enough (or might be to much). If it's none of these things, then you should just tell her what you have been, lots of guys are selfish scum suckers and don't know a good thing when they see it. What kind of guys is she into? She might want to venture out and try something new like if she is into jocks, go for nerds lol OR she could ask them....ya it's nice to be asked, but tell her to take the bull by the horns and just ask, maybe something really great will come from it, or maybe she will find out what they are really thinking about her..... tell her good luck :) hope Any of this helped :)
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