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Posted by on Oct. 12, 2011 at 9:57 PM
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Hi there. My name is Stephanie. I am 28 years old. I have 2 sons. 5 years old and 17 months. I am pregnant with baby #3. I have not officially be diagnosed with Lupus but my doctor thinks I have it. I am scared. I have been reading some of your posts and I am afraid that this is a death sentence. I have a fear that I will die young and not get to see my kids grow up and get married and have kids. 

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jdouglas111
by Member on Oct. 12, 2011 at 11:39 PM

Nah you'll be fine ;) .  Something like 85% of Lupus patients live a normal life.  Check out http://www.lupus.org/ for more information about the illness.  There are varying degrees/varying types of Lupus.

momof3inCT
by Member on Oct. 13, 2011 at 2:03 PM

I was int he same boat when I was pregnant with my 3rd baby and found out I had lupus and I was fine after that pregnancy and breastfeeding was over I went on meds and was in better shape then ever with my medical issues. IT IS NOT a death sentence unless you ignore your treatment and you happen to have a severe case. Talk to your dr and let him know your fears! you can message me at any time I understand what your going thru but just knw your not alone I even went on to have a 4th baby and even tho at the moment my rashes are bad my sypmtoms are more undercontrol now then ever! Hang in there!

I am a 38 yr old married mom of 4, who HATES Drama, LOVES to raise her own kids, breastfed all 4, in FULL belief of discipline and SPANKING, disposable diapers, DOES vaccinate ALL my kids, and believes kids need rules and to have LOTS of fun!!!

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