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Alright were to start lol.......the dream about your neice, I'm assuming these are reoccurring dreams that are very similar each time? Did you attend the funeral? Did it look the way it did in your dream? Since it was a very tragic event and very recent, it could be your way of continuing to grieve. Seeing the funeral over and over until you are ready to fully move on. Or just to see one last look of her. More details on this one might make it easier for you to understand.

The different man......well that could mean a lot of different things too. Do you know this man? Are you happen with your current husband? What do you do with him in the dream? What do each of you look like in the dream? (Meaning how are you dressed, etc).

The smallest detail can make the biggest difference. It's just a matter of paying attention  to that detail (no matter how "strange" it may seem) and understanding how it ties in with the rest of the dream.

If you have lots of dreams like this on a regular basis, be sure to keep a dream journal. Write down EVERY detail of the dream no matter how small. ;)

I agree with karadawn about the funeral. It is probably still a raw wound. I think it is easier for you to cope with, so your subconcious is bringing it forward. A way of dealing or letting go.
The dreams about another man, are you and current SO or DH happy? Are you going through a rough spot in your relationship? I know when I fight with my DH, my dreams come knocking. LOL. I think that it is just my subconcious telling me to focus on the things that I love about him, because the things I do in my dreams are the very things I adore doing with HIM, not the other person in them.
Also, I don't know how relevant this is to you in this scenario, but I just had a killer dream the other day...It was my husband and I, but we were different. In fact, I had almost thought I was with another man, until I looked at myself...I think it was more of a past life dream than anything. Maybe this could be it too.....?? Something to think about.

Yes I did attend my neice's funeral and yes it was the same scenery as the funeral.No I have no clue who the man was in my dream all I know is that we had a big beautiful house and we were really happy.And no currently for like the past 2 yrs I have not been really happy with my marriage.I been thinking of leaving my husband, but financially I can't right now.Yes we are having a rough time he got laid off work and we are behind all bills.Now last night I had a dream I was moving to San Antonio Texas I don't know why I did live there Years ago.And in the dream with the man we were wearing regular clothes we were hugging & kissing.

okay, so here's a thought...when you lived in SA, was your husband there too? or just yourself?....was this a happy or gratifying time in your life? If you answered yes to this, my opinion would be that it is just as it is for me, it was a time and place where you were happy...free maybe? So naturally, you would gravitate toward that locale, bring back that happy, warm feeling that you may be lacking now. Also, if hubby was there with you...maybe you want to feel that spark again? Like I said, for me personally, it isn't necessarily the other man in your dream, but your desires manifested in something new, because you are so unhappy where you stand in your waking life. From personal experience, it is hard to be attached to someone you really don't want to be attached to...you at one time loved these qualities in your DH that are manifesting in your dreams...whether it be emotional or physical side of things...but your desire in waking life to "run" so to speak, will in dream life allow you that freedom.
 If you answered no to hubby being with you, maybe it could be a precog type dream. Maybe your subconcious telling you that you will be okay. There will be more happiness after the sadness.
  I don't know, just some thoughts I've had after rereading everything...LOL

Quoting ctv123:

okay, so here's a thought...when you lived in SA, was your husband there too? or just yourself?....was this a happy or gratifying time in your life? If you answered yes to this, my opinion would be that it is just as it is for me, it was a time and place where you were happy...free maybe? So naturally, you would gravitate toward that locale, bring back that happy, warm feeling that you may be lacking now. Also, if hubby was there with you...maybe you want to feel that spark again? Like I said, for me personally, it isn't necessarily the other man in your dream, but your desires manifested in something new, because you are so unhappy where you stand in your waking life. From personal experience, it is hard to be attached to someone you really don't want to be attached to...you at one time loved these qualities in your DH that are manifesting in your dreams...whether it be emotional or physical side of things...but your desire in waking life to "run" so to speak, will in dream life allow you that freedom.
 If you answered no to hubby being with you, maybe it could be a precog type dream. Maybe your subconcious telling you that you will be okay. There will be more happiness after the sadness.
  I don't know, just some thoughts I've had after rereading everything...LOL

No my husband was not with me in SA.I was single at the time I lived there.I also have a daughter that lives in Abiline Tx would that have something to do with it?

If you were single at the time you lived in SA, then that probably is part of the reason you were dreaming of being there again (especially with someone other than your husband). Almost like you were wanting to go back to that point in time in your life when you weren't attached to a particular person or location