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Sweet Aiden...

Posted by on Mar. 19, 2008 at 12:05 AM
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I come to this group everyday, religiously. And everyday I look for  new posts or updates on the little guy....I miss him.
I have never met him, held him or given him loves, but I miss him like he's my own or he's always been in my life. I miss hearing how well he was doing, and little updates like him getting out of ICU, breathing on his own, drinking from a bottle, being happy...it makes me so sad that WE dont get to hear updates on him just to make sure he is improving and adapting neurologically better. I think about him everyday, I have no hard feelings towards the parents, honestly because there is nothing I can do about what happened. It happened. They WILL get their punishment, theres no doubt about that. I just focus on Aiden and his brothers health. I dont like dwelling on what they did to him. It ruins my day everyday and I am a constant wreck and paranoid all the time that someone could or might do that to my son! I am happy, so relieved that he is gradually improving. He is after all, a miracle. This board has been quiet the last week or so ever since his last court date. I know we all were hear just to bash on Tina and Phillip, were here to 'Pray for Aiden' right? Were here for Aiden and to support him and offer him prayers of wellness....well where have we all been...Im sure you all miss him like I do. I just think we should continue to show him how much we love him and not focus on the bad thats happened, I know that order of not releasing info, but we cant do anything about it for now. Lets not let them get to us and continue fighting and praying for Aiden!! Love you Aiden and all you ladies...
Posted by on Mar. 19, 2008 at 12:05 AM
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ALiLBabyPHAT18
by Group Owner on Mar. 19, 2008 at 12:13 AM
Thank you SO much for posting!!! I myself have been wondering the SAME thing! I have noticed we haven't had many responses from members, not many posts, and not many new members...where did everyone go? Though we can not release/know any information right now, we can still pass the time by continueing to pray, show support and love for him & his brother...

daisie
by on Mar. 19, 2008 at 1:16 AM
I'm here. I 've been busy playing investigator, but I have not stopped praying for him and the new little guy. A few weeks back, I wrote a post especially for prayers that way, our prayers would not get mingled with all of the non-spiritual comments, but only a couple of moms posted their prayers for Aiden and three of them from me. I felt awkward for praying alone so I stopped. But I still pray at home, I have two churches praying plus my sister's women ministry group praying. So please don't feel discourage. The devil can't stop us , we're on a roll sister.


   
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andrea515
by on Mar. 19, 2008 at 1:23 AM
I still think of him everyday and will continue to pray for him and his family.He is truly a little miracle and he will never be forgotten.xoxoxo Aiden everyone is so proud of you
MsHernandez
by Member on Mar. 19, 2008 at 1:38 AM
i always think of him and look for new updates.... he isstill in thoughts everyday. i wish him the very best and pray he and his new brother be placed in the same home were they have each other....
Val3
by on Mar. 19, 2008 at 8:20 AM
I do the same thing. I even check his myspace to see if there is something that someone here missed. But nothing. Sometimes, I don't know what to say, other times, I just want to bash his parents. So, I just sit here and say a little prayer to myself and thank GOD that Aiden is alive and hopefully one day he and his brother will be together!
Quoting MsHernandez:

i always think of him and look for new updates.... he isstill in thoughts everyday. i wish him the very best and pray he and his new brother be placed in the same home were they have each other....
ashnrymom
by New Member on Mar. 19, 2008 at 8:30 AM
I check often for updates on here and myspace...not a day goes by that I dont think of those little ones!  Just like you, I have never met him but I feel like I have always known him....always in my heart....

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DaelynRae
by on Mar. 19, 2008 at 8:57 AM
I couldn't agree w/ you more!!!  I am still here and check in daily.  I have written a letter to DFACS on behalf of Aiden and his little brother.  Aiden is constantly on my mind....I love that little guy even though I have never met him!  I dream of holding him and comforting him.  Even though it'll most likely never happen.  I hope that him and his brother will be able to grow up together in a home w/ people who love them and care about them deeply.  I hope that Aiden will never have to endure the pain and violence that he has unfortunately already had to experience and I hope his brother never has to.  I wish that I could grab him out of one of those pics that his mom is holding him in and rescue him from what was to come.  I really wish that I could bring both of them into my home and be the one to show them the love of a mother, the way it's supposed to be.....

You are much stronger than I am though.  I can't get it off my mind, the horrible things that he was a victim of!!!  I cannot imagine why on earth a mother would beat her child, and Aiden was only a baby!  A innocent, helpless, precious baby!!!  I can not begin to imagine why a mother would bite her baby, hit him, throw him, or show any violence toward her baby or any child!!!!  It really upsets me!  I just think, how?!  Aiden and his brother are in my thoughts and prayers daily and I hope that he is still on everyone else's mind as well!

MaryJane849
by Member on Mar. 19, 2008 at 9:25 AM
I also think about Aiden 24/7, check with cafemom and myspace hoping to hear any kind of new, news about Aiden and his little bro. I leave a comment on his page every day of the week. At this time I do not have a computer at home, so I actually look forward to coming to work and kind of dread the weekend because I can't check on the pages to see if there are any updates. Aiden lived less than two miles from me when the January incident happen and even though I did not know anything about his situation I still feel guilty that he was that close and I did not know he was in trouble. I care deeply for these two little guys and would do anything to turn back the hands of time if I only could. Love you little guys.
Karen
Noahsmom32825
by Member on Mar. 19, 2008 at 6:12 PM
I will never forget about sweet little Aiden and his brother. He's in my heart and thoughts every single minute. I actually got in trouble at work for going on my space to check for updates. Please don't feel discouraged. I pray for him all the time. I think of Aiden and baby Waller as my sons.  I'm here.....I just don't post anything as I don't know what to write. All I do is pray and pray. Love you Aiden and baby Waller  very very much. Hope one day to see you both happy, loved and well.
mattbabysmom
by on Mar. 19, 2008 at 6:49 PM
Ditto!! I don't know what to post about, and feel stupid for being soooo addicted to this group. I have even asked my hubby about adopting the boys. I'm obsessed with them, and am constantly praying for them!!
Quoting Noahsmom32825:

I will never forget about sweet little Aiden and his brother. He's in my heart and thoughts every single minute. I actually got in trouble at work for going on my space to check for updates. Please don't feel discouraged. I pray for him all the time. I think of Aiden and baby Waller as my sons.  I'm here.....I just don't post anything as I don't know what to write. All I do is pray and pray. Love you Aiden and baby Waller  very very much. Hope one day to see you both happy, loved and well.

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