Custody Hearing...

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  • BISCUIT03
  on Mar. 25, 2008 at 5:48 PM
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  Quoting april2208:
  
  Steve didnt know about the abuse...he only found out the TRUTH recently...Tina told him that he fell in his crib(while trying to pull himself up) and hit his face on the musicbox in his crib.....and yes he was only with Steve for a short period of time...though I think it was a little longer than a month.....but thats because Tina completed her "case plan" as ordered by the court, therefore she was granted custody of Aiden....

  
  OH OK....I THINK I AM GETTING THE GIST OF THE STORY NOW. FOR A WHILE I WAS TOTALLY CONFUSED....LOL
  

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  • darrahmomof3
  on Mar. 26, 2008 at 9:18 AM
• I am glad to know that he is doing well and in a safe place. Hopefully he can get to know his little brother and the can be best buddies!

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  • ALiLBabyPHAT18
  on Mar. 27, 2008 at 11:30 PM
• FROM MR. STEVE: "I know that I have not been on here, but I wanted to let everyone know that Aiden and his brother will not be in custody for 12 months. I confirmed what I understood in court with DEFACS. They asked to continue custody for UP TO 12 months. That just makes sure they have enough time to finish the investigations that they do. I have not been told an exact time, but talking to people I know that has been through somthing similiar to this, it should be anywhere from one to three months. That is not a quote from anyone involved, just an estimate. But I do know that it will not be a year. Thanks again everyone. Thanks for understanding my being away, and for not talking. I would not even say this much, but there is a lot of concern about this. I figure if the pree can report it, I can correct it. God Bless you all."

   

  

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  • KierstynsMom
  on Mar. 28, 2008 at 11:12 AM
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  Quoting ALiLBabyPHAT18:
  
  FROM MR. STEVE: "I know that I have not been on here, but I wanted to let everyone know that Aiden and his brother will not be in custody for 12 months. I confirmed what I understood in court with DEFACS. They asked to continue custody for UP TO 12 months. That just makes sure they have enough time to finish the investigations that they do. I have not been told an exact time, but talking to people I know that has been through somthing similiar to this, it should be anywhere from one to three months. That is not a quote from anyone involved, just an estimate. But I do know that it will not be a year. Thanks again everyone. Thanks for understanding my being away, and for not talking. I would not even say this much, but there is a lot of concern about this. I figure if the pree can report it, I can correct it. God Bless you all."

  
  Aww!!   Thank you SOO much for giving us the report mr.steve we all are thinking about you . I'm soo glad that they "shouldn't " be there that long!!!
  

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  • MaryJane849
  on Mar. 28, 2008 at 12:17 PM
• Thank you Steve for the info, if there is anything we can do, please do not hesitate to ask.
  Karen

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  • ashleylynn86
  on Apr. 3, 2008 at 7:35 AM
• don't they know that between now and when he turns 2 he will need someone he can trust and a person that will always be there for him and his little brother then same it is a time of growing..

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  • ALiLBabyPHAT18
  on Apr. 3, 2008 at 10:30 AM
• FROM MR. STEVE: "I know that I have not been on here, but I wanted to let everyone know that Aiden and his brother will not be in custody for 12 months. I confirmed what I understood in court with DEFACS. They asked to continue custody for UP TO 12 months. That just makes sure they have enough time to finish the investigations that they do. I have not been told an exact time, but talking to people I know that has been through somthing similiar to this, it should be anywhere from one to three months. That is not a quote from anyone involved, just an estimate. But I do know that it will not be a year. Thanks again everyone. Thanks for understanding my being away, and for not talking. I would not even say this much, but there is a lot of concern about this. I figure if the pree can report it, I can correct it. God Bless you all."

   

  

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  • ALiLBabyPHAT18
  on Apr. 11, 2008 at 11:58 PM
• NEW POLL, PLEASE VOTE!

   

  

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  • MADJGNLAW
  on Sep. 8, 2008 at 7:37 AM

• Hello, first I would like to introduce myself and thank the group owner for sharing this child's story.  I am called MADJGNLAW for the children I represent that have been abused and my own love ones. 

   

  How tragic this is.  I hate the system for this reason.  I just don't understand why they take so long to investigate the children that are really being abused and then send them back to the birth parents.  My daughter used to work for Child Protective Services and she came home crying almost everyday.  She was not allowed to talk to me about her cases but she did tell me that they are so over worked by the state and a lot of them have learned to block out their emotions and some just don't care. The hand full that do care are over there head in work.  Child Protective Services has been given pages of rules to follow to make sure the children stay with their birth parent and it is sad to say, but some children come into this world with a family that does not deserve  them.  I really feel this child should be put up for adoption because if goes back to the family member the mother will have access to the child. Now, if Papa would adopt him then  it would be very hard for  the mother  to get the child back. They make it so hard to adopt a child in the U.S. and that is another reason so many children are in the system and continue to be abused.  I pray for these children and I wish there was something I could do. I have recently went to Washington and meet with the Senate committee to introduce a general "Bill" for  reforming children's rights in honor of Caylee Marie Anthony and all of America's abused and neglected children. That is a process that takes quite some time and needs a lot of people involved to get the attention of the Senate.  But I will not give up and keep on fighting.  Anyone live in the State and City this is in?  Maybe someone could become this child's Advocate and speak to the Mayor and Senator in the city and try to help find this child a permanent home.  Just a suggestion. 

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