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Posted by on Jun. 2, 2008 at 12:11 AM
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I don't like to talk about this much, but when I was 16, I rebelled against my daddy, and ran away with my now-husband. We went to a party, and there were drugs, and alcohol...I only had one mixed drink, and when everyone started leaving, I went to the bathroom. There was only a few people left at the house, I knew them, so I thought everything would be ok. Travis passed out in the next room. I came back, finnished my drink, and just minutes later, started feeling strange, so I decided to get up & sit on the couch. When I stood up, the room started spinning, and all of a sudden my vision grew pitch black, I couldn't move, speak...all I could do was feel & think. The last thing I remember, was someone rubbing my theigh. The next morning I was awaken by Travis yelling & cursing me. I was laid on the couch, with an unfimiliar big shirt on, and unbuttoned jeans...I looked beside me, and there laid my bra, panties & a bloody condom. (date rape drug?) I immediatly called my daddy, after 4 hours of non-stop crying & the LONGEST shower of my life, and I went home, & then he took me to a rape-clinic. I had indeed been raped (I eventually found out who it was, he "bragged" about it to one of our mutual friends) but decided not to press charges because I was afraid. Two weeks later they wanted me to come back for a follow-up PAP, and I found out that I had HPV. Then, a few months later, I got diagnosed with cervical cancer. After extensive tests, pain & surgery, my cancer was in remission. All of my PAP's have came back normal since then, though I have suffered long-term damage to my cervix & scar tissue to one of my fallopian tubes. PLEASE SAY A LITTLE PRAYER FOR ME, THAT THE CANCER HASN'T RETURNED! THANK YOU ALL & GOD BLESS...I WILL TALK TO YA'LL TOMARROW!
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ALiLBabyPHAT18
by Group Owner on Jun. 2, 2008 at 12:12 AM

(LOVE YA'LL!)  :o)

Noahsmom32825
by Member on Jun. 2, 2008 at 12:50 PM

Sorry for what happened to you. It must have been horrible. My family and I will pray for you like we always do.

Hazels_Mommy647
by Member on Jun. 2, 2008 at 5:18 PM
I will pray for you!! This also scares thae crap outa me! I also have HPV i am not sure who i got it from due to some bad choices on my part. But I found out i had it when i got prego with my daughter she is now a year and i havent got it checked since my 6 week chk up after having my daughter. and when i got it checked then they said it had gotten worse unfortunatly i havent been back to have it checked again because i have a huge bill with them i they wont see me till i atleast pay half!  so i havent been back because im broke and have to many bills to worry about that I have to put before this one. So I am really worried because I have been having really bad cramping and really bad periods!! I am just hoping that everything hasnt gotten worse but im sure it has.. So I know where your coming from. Like I said i will prey for you good luck!
ALiLBabyPHAT18
by Group Owner on Jun. 2, 2008 at 6:08 PM
Hey ya'll...well, I'm finally back from the doctor's, after eating a nice lunch with my Daddy & son, and taking a long needed nap! I have some good news & some bad news...the BAD news is, I didn't get a chance to have my PAP done today, so I had to reschedule that until the 19th. Also, I had a complete physical done, some blood work & a sample of my "vaginal secetions". She said that my swollen lymph nodes & all the other symptoms that I have been experiencing is definately NOT normal. My cervix appeared "red" & "iritated". Looking under the microscope at my vaginal sample, the doctor said everything seemed fine, BUT it is going to take a week or so to get the rest of my test results in, to confirm it. As of now, she is baffeled. All I can do now is wait...they may have to send me to a specialist. I was also diagnosed with TMJ while I was there, & am getting my IUD taken out in August. Please just continue to pray for me everyone...I really appriciate it!
aheasley
by on Jun. 6, 2008 at 10:23 PM
I am praying for you. I am in a similar boat. I have had several abnormal paps in the last 6 years. Wed. I went in and had a biopsy of my cervix. I am now waiting for the results. Good luck and keep us posted.
4cutekiddos
by Member on Jun. 8, 2008 at 5:14 PM
Sorry to hear that you had to endure such horrible events!  I have been in a few similar situations, only there was no alcohol or drugs involved.  I will be praying that the cancer does not come back!  I have a few friends that have HPV and have had cervical cancer.  Take care!

   

ALiLBabyPHAT18
by Group Owner on Jun. 9, 2008 at 12:08 PM
Thanks for everyone's support...my test results were supposed to come in Friday, and she told me that "no news is good news", and I haven't heard back from her. So, on to the next step...figuring out what is wrong with me! I go in for a PAP smear on the 19th (and get my IUD taken out-- sorry, I got some of my dates/information confused!) and hopefully THAT will also come back normal! If not, I will have to go through hell once again! I just hope that it hasn't turned into something serious! (Continue to pray for my condition!) I will keep you all updated...OH! And my husband & I decided to go ahead with marriage counseling with our preacher, not just for our relationship, but also to help us become better Christians! (We rededicated our lives to God a couple of weeks ago!) *Wish me luck on that, also!* So far, so good! :o)
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