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mamajill

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on Feb. 6, 2008 at 11:06 AM

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I thought I'd put a sticky post up here since we have a lot of spiritual birth professionals. I'd like to keep a string of birth rituals, rite of passage ceremonies, etc. that people can refer to.

Along those lines, a few people asked me about my Blessingway. I had hoped to do more of a ceremony, but it was intertwined with a shower... it actually came across well and my more conservative relatives participated. Really cool. Reminds me of the scene in Practical Magic where the mainstream mommies are in circle together for the banishing spell :)



 




Written by on Feb. 6, 2008 at 11:06 AM

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  • mamajill
  • by on Feb. 12, 2008 at 2:01 PM
  • Spiritual mamahood book suggestions:

    Blessingways: A Guide to Mother-Centered Baby Showers--Celebrating Pregnancy, Birth, and Motherhood (Paperback)by Shari Maser Blessingways: A Guide to Mother-Centered Baby Showers is a resource especially for planning and hosting Blessingway baby showers that foster a bond of community, support and connectedness for the mother-to-be. The distinguishing feature of a Blessingway baby shower is that it is a woman-centered celebration, that especially focuses upon the strength, beauty, and metamorphosis of the female powers of the expectant mother, rather than the more typical baby-centered parties used to accumulate goods for the newborn.

    Mother Rising: The Blessingway Journey into Motherhood

    The newest edition of Mother Rising has been published by Celestial Arts/Ten Speed Press and is being distributed nationally and internationally, so please check your local bookstore. To order Mother Rising, visit the Celestial Arts website: www.tenspeed.com ©2006 ISBN-13: 978-1-58761-267-1

    Mother Blessings Honoring Women Becoming Mothers
    by Anna Stewart 
    This book gives women a hundred ideas for honoring women in the community through ceremonies, celebrations and creative expressions. “This book is the golden ticket to deliver us from the pastel, game playing baby shower that belittles and makes ’cute’ the sublime transformation of a women into a mother. Herein lies the real thing – full acknowledgement of the splendor and challenges that mothering brings to a women’s life. Beyond that, this book masterfully guides the new mother and her support community in creating an intentional ceremony that celebrates, honors and nurtures the new mother, all in an artful manner, befitting the majesty of her new role.” -- Beth Osnes, author of Twice Alive: A Spiritual Guide to Mothering Through Pregnancy and the Child’s First Year.

  • mamajill
  • by on Aug. 8, 2008 at 9:44 AM
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    birth poems by Jeannine Parvati Baker



    Ten Moons Give Light

    Women are like plants.

    We turn light into matter.

    Plants do photosynthesis -

    We do embryogenesis.

    How do we do this magic?

    No one knows.

    Women take the light

    in our lovers' eyes and

    in ten moons give light

    in the form of a baby.




    FIRST FLUTTERING:
    THE QUICKENING


    I feel the baby move:
    First fluttering.
    The sensation cocoons me.
    I enfold myself more deeply
    into this pregnancy.

    Insular, fleshing about creation:
    A hidden magic, like a camera.
    I've snapped the picture
    of what our love looks like
    and am silently growing it within.

    How bold to fall in love
    with my unseen child.
    Soon, self-developed, out
    you will slide. The picture of
    our ecstasy becoming
    clearer as you dry.

    Adoration: You
    of the original face.
    Do I see a butterfly?
    Some winged possibility
    thrown here into my womb.

    I look and peer inside.
    You spin out yourself secretly:
    A labyrinth of wet desire.
    Sometimes I glimpse
    a chaotic light, a firefly
    blinking into existence.

    These previews comes
    before dawn, after dark,
    at the changing times.
    You soar then, weaving mystery.

    Mostly I feel you.
    As you hide from my eyes
    you cannot from my skin.
    I contain you, my baby:
    As surely as soul holds me
    or the ocean cradles the earth.

    You are the lightest substance,
    the tentative leap into matter.
    I feel you like wet seaweed
    around my thighs.
    I feel your heart, twice
    as fast as mine.
    I feel your breath
    reminding me of enlightenment.
    I feel your hopes to be, quickening.

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