I need advice

[soontobemommy22]

I am so mad at my bil and mil in law right now

I punished Taylor today for hitting me

well I put her  in the concer that wasn't working so I popped her butt 1 time! Well my bil gave me dirty look for it. my mil came out of her room and said is every one done screaming I WAS on the phone!  I told her what was going on she just gave me a dirty look and went back to her room!

They treat me like crap any ways

Since we ghave moved it back to thier house they are treating PAt and I like we are kids when we are adults. The only reason we moved back here in the first place wasbecause Caden ( our son) has allgeris and the house  was making him sick so we moved back with them we are goig to be here until we get another place to live! I am so pissed right now I could scream

 

I told them I am going back to school to get my masters degree in early childhood education they are not suppotive with anything I do. It's like I am the emey for marrying thier son/brother.

She stills holds the fact We got pregnant before we got married. we found out we were pregnant 3 weeks beofre our wedding.   then when we oved back the first time because Pat lost his job we got prenant with our son she hold s that over my head yeah that was done on purpose NOT! she told us Thank God you have your tubes tied or you be pregnant right now! Caden was 2 months old then.

they say they are Christians but they aren't acting likeit! I am so done with them i can't say anything to my husband because he will defend them over me

I need your advice on what to do!  I love my husbnad with all of my heart but I can't stand his family I am not sure how much more I can take.

[okmommy08]

Im sorry you are having to go through this. Living with parents after you become an adult never seems to work out. Hopefully you can get out of there as soon as possible.Im praying for you!

[steffers96]

I'm really sorry you have to deal with them being so unkind! I've been in this boat before & I wrote my MIL a long email & even gave my husband a copy before sending it so there was nothing she could try to lie about. The difference is that my MIL and I used to be really good friends before our son was born...but then she went cookoo. She did get a little better after the letter, but it wasn't until October of last year that I called her on the mat, face to face. She said she didn't know that's how I felt and she didn't realize what she'd done.....here's what's bothering me most about your situation...
What the heck do you mean your hubby would side with them?!?! Marriage calls for a man to leave his parents and cling to his wife (ditto for the wife) - if your hubby thinks you're wrong about something, you and him should discuss this alone without them around, but whatever the case, he should defend YOU no matter what...publically anyway. There've been times I'm not right about something, but my hubby defends me BIG TIME and later he'll whisper "you know you weren't right about this and that, right?" and we talk it out. My concern for you right now is that you are in your in-laws home, being totally disrespected in front of your kids, and you have no support!!!
I really feel so bad for you & pray some type of resolve will happen very soon. In the meantime your hubby needs to step up & tell his parents to butt out of your marriage and your discipline with your kids...he needs to take control of the situation.
((((BIG HUGS!!!))))