Guidelines for THIS Forum...

[momneedscoffee]

Of course, our group guidelines will be used in this forum...

* NO HUBBY BASHING!!  This is our NUMBER 1 RULE!!

* NO BASHING EACH OTHER  This also includes those in other groups.

* NO NAME CALLING!  This also includes those in other groups.

*. NO ADVERTISING of any sorts. ~ I have set up the filter for this.  It will block posts and replies that contain links to certain sites. By enabling this setting, CafeMom will automatically block posts and replies from being made. This feature does not check signatures.

* NO SPAM!!!! .

* NO JUDGING ~ Being a submissive/ surrendered wife can mean different things to different people.  Please do not judge another's way of submitting to their husband.

* What goes on in this group STAYS in this group!

Just as an FYI ~ Our group is set up to remove those who have not accessed the group in 60 days.  Once a day, CafeMom will delete those who have not visited the group within 60 days.  If for some reason you are deleted, but wish to join again...please, just reapply.

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This forum has been set up for those who may be curious what is means to be a submissive and surrendered wife BEFORE applying to the group.

This forum has been offered to those who would like to get a brief preview of what our group is about.

Thank you for checking out our group.

If you feel you would like to learn more, or talk with others who are on the Submissive and Surrendered journey in their own relationships and marriage...please apply to our group!  We would love for you to join us!

Thank you,

MomNeedsCoffee, Group Owner

[Mugglemom215]

As a wife of 23yrs in an LDD marrige from the time we got serius it is nice to see aplace of open communication it takes a strong woman to live this lifestyle nice to see it brought out in the manner it deserves

[FemRising]

I am looking forward to joining the group. I've seen what disrespect, cursing, headstrong-ness, disinterestedness, and aloofness can do to a marriage. I've done all of those. My husband is not perfect. But I certainly have a long way to go to be Miss Perfect myself.  I am looking for a group that is interested in making marriage better. I do have the book and have read it. I might have thrown it away though in a peak of anger. I'm going to check tonight and see if I still have it and re-read it! I would love to give up some of the control that I have wrestled away from my husband!  And starting tonight when he said "I'll take the garbage out." I'm NOT going to say "that's OK, I've got it..!"  I won't even let him take the garbage out!!!  That is how control oriented I am.  So, I really need this group!

Oh, and editing to say that I am trying to get my account deleted so I can create a different screen name!  FemRising just doesn't sound that great to me right now. Being feminine,yes, I'm concentrating on that, but rising above him? No.  So, whenver I get my new account, I'll ask to rejoin.