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About Submissive and Surrendered Wives

(This is NOT a BDSM group!)

Why settle for OK, when WOW is just an attitude away!


What is a surrendered wife? She is a wife who does not try to control her husband but understands that she can only control herself. She knows that she can control how she responds to him which can bring about more peace and understanding in her marriage if she treats him in ways that leave him feeling respected and appreciated. She expresses her needs in a way that respects her husband's choices and doesn't criticize, belittle or dismiss her husband. She chooses to trust her husband in every area of the marriage. She works hard to keep her home running smoothly and happily.

What is a surrendered wife NOT? A surrendered wife is not a doormat, a wimp, a slave, devoid of opinions, weak, etc. She knows that it takes a strong woman to put her husbands wishes above her own and to stop trying to control other people and circumstances in her life, she has a strong sense of self-control and not others-control.

Why would someone want to be a submissive or surrendered wife? To bring greater peace and intimacy to her marriage. Some choose to do this for religious reasons and others follow the teachings from the book "The Surrendered Wife". No matter your reason you are welcome here, we are all here to support each other and offer help, advice and friendship!

We don't allow advertising, spamming, drama or flaming.



ALL Religions are WELCOME!

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* NO HUBBY BASHING!!  This is our NUMBER 1 RULE!!

* NO BASHING EACH OTHER  This also includes those in other groups.

* NO NAME CALLING!  This also includes those in other groups.

*. NO ADVERTISING of any sorts. ~ I will be setting up the filter for this.  It will block posts and replies that contain links to certain sites. By enabling this setting, CafeMom will automatically block posts and replies from being made. This feature does not check signatures.

* NO SPAM!!!! .

* NO JUDGING ~ Being a submissive/ surrendered wife can mean different things to different people.  Please do not judge another's way of submitting to their husband.

* What goes on in this group STAYS in this group!

Just as an FYI ~ Our group is set up to remove those who have not accessed the group in 60 days.  Once a day, CafeMom will delete those who have not visited the group within 60 days.  If for some reason you are deleted, but wish to join again...please, just reapply.

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If you have any questions, concerns, comments, and/or suggestions...please let me know.

Thank you,

MomNeedsCoffee, group owner


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  • Happy Homemaking: Group Members Only
  • Organized Christmas: Group Members Only
  • What is a Submissive and Surrendered Wife: Everyone
  • Spring Cleaning: Group Members Only

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