He will be back mid Feb.
He currently has 2.5 days available and by time he could take R&R around halloween he would have 5days
He doesn't want to mess up our routine and also his. He rather just come home in feb and be home for 20days, 10 of which would put him in hole.....I think I really rather have him come home for R&R and deal with what comes with our feelings and are son??
What would you do???