"Breakthroughs"

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  • Trinjo
  on Mar. 24, 2008 at 2:09 PM
• Thank you for sharing!
  
  You mention love ~ is love an emotion of the ego as well?  *Pondering to myself... *

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  • profoundlove
  on Mar. 24, 2008 at 2:17 PM
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  Quoting Trinjo:
  
  Thank you for sharing!
  
  You mention love ~ is love an emotion of the ego as well? *Pondering to myself... *

  From my experience..Love is what people refer to as God, but the moment it is labelled, it loses it's vastness.
  When in being, the vibration I feel can only be summed up as Love.
  And it is a pouring out, rather than a need. An experience rather than an action.
  When observing objectively, Love is seen in dimensions and whichever dimension it vibrates in, there can be a heavier more dense vibration surrounding it, or a staticky, less pronounced breakable vibration.
  it appears that the difference is egoic idea of love, versus being vibration of love, which simply flows direct, and constant.
  When wanting comes into love, reality is exchanged for fear/ego.
  
  

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  • conjuredUp
  on Mar. 24, 2008 at 8:52 PM
• Yes, Aim... Yes... 1000 times.  My mom used to get SO mad at me for not getting upset by things.
  
  Bert does too sometimes.
  
  I know I am not crazy. 
  
  

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  • LiaSophiaTina
  on Mar. 25, 2008 at 12:00 PM
• Yep.  Andrew's dad used to actually blow up and say "at least I'd know you CARE if you'd ARGUE with me!!!"
  
  I never could make that make sense...

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  • michaelsmom777
  on Mar. 26, 2008 at 1:13 AM
• Aim, thank you so so much for your piece.  I haven't poked around here in a while and when I read your post- it was exactly what I needed to read.
  
  You are so beautiful.  I love you.
  
  
  
  

  Love Always,

  Lisa O.

  
  

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  • Tricia671
  on Mar. 27, 2008 at 6:12 PM

• Wow have I had a life changing breakthrough, it happened in chapter 4 as I was listening to Eckart discussing the Role of the mother and  how we cause the feelings of anxiety when trying to effectively parent our children.This brought me to tears, it's my reaction to my daughter and not her actions that upset me. My state of anxiety permeates her behavior and my nervous energy will provoke her even more. Never looked at it this way. I need to be able to accept the moment as it is, be transparent and not pull her into my anxious ridden reaction.  I also loved when he said "Our most sacred moments are our greatest challenges" and for my life being the present mother my daughter needs me to be has been the biggest challenge.

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  • michaelsmom777
  on Mar. 28, 2008 at 8:25 PM
• Tricia- thank you so much for sharing this.  This has been one of my biggest issues in overcoming as well.    How wonderful it is that we are becoming AWARE! 
  This is just the beginning.  We are truely moving forward from here in a positive way and our children will notice it and respond to it. 
  
  We are becomming better mothers!  Hooray for us!
  
  Woo woo!
  
  
  

  Love Always,

  Lisa O.

  
  

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  • Tricia671
  on Apr. 1, 2008 at 12:32 PM
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  Quoting michaelsmom777:
  
  Tricia- thank you so much for sharing this.  This has been one of my biggest issues in overcoming as well.    How wonderful it is that we are becoming AWARE! 
  This is just the beginning.  We are truely moving forward from here in a positive way and our children will notice it and respond to it. 
  
  We are becomming better mothers!  Hooray for us!
  
  Woo woo!
  
  
  

  it's truly incredible! and interesting how we always feel like were the only ones struggling with certain aspects of our lives when in reality we're never alone. Thanks for your encouragement. Just this past weekend my six year old stopped me in my tracks when she asked me "mommy why are you so calm?", out of the mouth of babes. It's happening....
  "Snowflakes are one of nature’s most fragile things, but just look what they can do when they stick together"
  
  -Vesta M. Kelly

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  • michaelsmom777
  on Apr. 1, 2008 at 4:06 PM
• I just have to say- I love all of you here in this group.  Thank you for sharing your inner most thoughts and being open.  I have learned so much from you all. 
   I LOVE YOU.
  
  
  

  Love Always,

  Lisa O.

  
  

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  • Karbear
  on Apr. 1, 2008 at 6:52 PM
• Chapter 5-
  Accepting what is has always been a problem for me. I needed to accept my mother's death and accept that my kids will not know the physical person.
  This is part of my pain body that I have to stop feeding. I carry this burden with me. Not quite sure how to shake it yet but I will figure it out.
  
  I also use to take people anger personally. I have family members that feed their negativity instead of taking active steps to resolve what's wrong.

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