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About those cards your kids made in school.........

Posted by on Feb. 16, 2012 at 10:51 AM
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..........that were going to people who were "lonely" around the holidays.  Yeah...........well....


A Queens teacher forced her fifth-graders to make holiday cards for a repulsive pen pal — a jailed boyfriend who has a taste for child porn and a conviction for gun possession.

Melissa Dean instructed the youngsters at Public School 143 in Corona to draw cards for her beau in December because she “thought it was a nice thing to do,” investigators said.

But a guard at Groveland Correctional Facility in upstate Livingston County disagreed, intercepting the 27 letters for John Coccarelli and alerting Dean’s principal.

“It was bad judgment,” said the city’s special commissioner of investigation, Richard Condon. “She certainly did not have permission.”

City Schools Chancellor Dennis Walcott called Dean’s actions “totally ridiculous, absurd . . . and we’re not going to tolerate it.

“We’re moving for that teacher’s termination,” Walcott said.

Dean, a teacher at the Corona school since 2004, told her students that they were sending the crayon-drawn notes to people who were lonely during the holidays.

Instead, they were sent to Coccarelli, who has been collared for possession of a loaded 9-mm. semiautomatic pistol and violating an order of protection.

Dean did not get permission from the school or kids’ parents to send the cards — some of which contained the students’ names and home addresses.

“If you write something nice to them, they will write back to us,” Dean, 31, told the class, according to investigators.

One student wrote, “I hope you have a Merry Christmas,” while another called Dean the “best teacher” because she didn’t assign a lot of homework.

Dean even wrote one, signing it “from your Wifey Melissa.”

Coccarelli, 33, has a disturbing criminal record. In 2008, he was busted in Nassau County for weapons possession and child porn after police found a disk and laptop with nearly 50 sexually explicit images of underage kids.

But in a deal, Coccarelli pleaded guilty only to the weapons charge, ensuring a longer prison sentence than a plea on the porn, according to the Nassau district attorney’s office. The porn charge was dropped.

Then in 2010, he pleaded guilty to violating a restraining order. He isn’t eligible for parole until May.

Coccarelli and Dean have been chummy since he’s been behind bars, chatting on the phone at least 327 times.

Dean also visited Coccarelli 11 times, identifying herself as a “friend” in the prison guestbook.

Coccarelli’s father insisted that his son didn’t do anything to encourage Dean to send cards from her students.

“She was trying to be nice,” said Coccarelli’s father, John Coccarelli Sr. “She made a mistake. I understand that.”

Shocked parents at PS 143 said that Dean endangered students and called for her job.

“She should be fired,” fumed Maria Cabrera, 29, whose son is in fifth grade at PS 143.

Dean, who makes draws a yearly salary of $75,283, was put on desk duty as soon as officials were notified of Condon’s report.

Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/queens/class-sends-handmade-holiday-cards-prisoner-article-1.1023215#ixzz1mYoKDZun

Posted by on Feb. 16, 2012 at 10:51 AM
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kmrtigger
by Group Mod - Kandice on Feb. 16, 2012 at 12:12 PM

That is just horrible. WHAT was she thinking? Wow.

jaytee
by Jen on Feb. 16, 2012 at 12:14 PM
Wtf are people thinking?!!? *smh*
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MissyB1011
by Bronze Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 12:18 PM

This went way beyond poor judgement! This was just...UGH!

Also, who makes that much teaching after 8 years? That's just wow!

soymujer
by Group Mod - Mikki on Feb. 16, 2012 at 12:51 PM
As for her salary, she probably has her Masters


Quoting MissyB1011:

This went way beyond poor judgement! This was just...UGH!

Also, who makes that much teaching after 8 years? That's just wow!


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MissyB1011
by Bronze Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 12:55 PM

I live in a more rural area. The only folks in our district that make that are the superintendant, 2 principals, and a couple teachers that have over 20 years of service.

Quoting soymujer:

As for her salary, she probably has her Masters


Quoting MissyB1011:

This went way beyond poor judgement! This was just...UGH!

Also, who makes that much teaching after 8 years? That's just wow!



auroragold
by Group Mod on Feb. 16, 2012 at 1:03 PM


Quoting MissyB1011:

Also, who makes that much teaching after 8 years? That's just wow!

She's in NYC so location - location - location!

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