Would you ask someone to change the way the dress because you don't want to explain something to your children?
Here is what brought up this question.
I am a mom of three girls that just so happened to have to have a mastectomy six years ago. I chose not to have reconstructive surgery done due to the high risk of infection (it was an infection that caused me to have to have the surgery). I have no problems with the way I look nor does most people around me, however I have had two different neighbors ask me not to wear tank tops outside because it has made their children ask questions as to why I only have one breast. I refuse to buckle and change the way I dress or have reconstructive surgery done to make my neighbors happy. So comes the question would you ask someone to change so you don't have to explain something to your children? And I never dress inappropriately I am always covered completely so it's not like I am trying to bring notice to the fact I have had it done.