HELP having a debate with hunny need input now. PLEASE!!!!!( UPDATE)
How much time do you spend as a family on a day to day basis.
What do you ground over
What is the expectation of bedrooms in your house.
OKAY so my oldest 2 that are 9 and soon to be 6 broke landscaping rocks in are yard and spread them all over our yard that we rent mind you and that might not have been such a huge deal BUT they have gotten in trouble for destroying things in the past. So they were ground to their room for a week no outside and no TV. But in that week they repeatly got in trouble would get off the bed Caught them jumping on beds swinging in closet from bar. wreastling.. OH and my 9 year old will pull every trick in the book to get off her bed AFTER I tell her do NOT get off your bed for any reason what so ever she will get off minutes after me telling her that and ask do you want me to mop the floor ? Do you want me to hold the baby. ITS none stop. But after a weekend in a half of this I feel bad I know stupid and my hunny is mad because he thinks they should be grounded till they can go without getting in trouble for 2 days straight. I think they are too small to be grounded for weeks.
Than there is also the fact we are not spending much family time together at all so I feel bad thinking they are actting out because they aren't getting time as a family.
And their room he wants their room cleaned everyday and I think its really not a big deal I just am really wondering what everyone else does. I have a 9 year old a 6 year old a 3 year old and 2 years old and 5 months.