What do we do if DD says her BM doesn't put her in a carseat or make her wear a seatbelt?? She is 6 years old, 54 pounds. BM and my DH share 50/50 joint custody of child, but they have a trial coming in November because BM filed for Full custody (for no other reason than she says it's confusing to share custody. She has no real grounds to take away custody and we are asking to move her school district to ours since our district is much higher rated and BM has moved 4 time in the past 5 years to different areas). Anyways what should we do about the no car seat/seatbelt? Should we call someone? Or wait until trial to bring it up. We've never seen DD in the car so I don't know if it's true. She also claims BM doesn't bathe her or make her change her underwear daily (when we ask why she stinks or her underwear is dirty). I'm mainly concerned about no seat and especially no seatbelt! Plus BM boyfiend is a felon...does this affect DH custody case at all?? I don't know if he can use that against her. He is still asking the court to keep the 50/50 custody because it mainly works best for the child, he only wants the school district to change. What steps should we take to ensure child's safety??