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At what age do you tell your kids....

Posted by on Aug. 29, 2012 at 7:25 PM
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The truth about

Santa

Easter Bunny

Tooth Fairy...

A post got me thinking. My son 7 and I want him to keep that innocence a bit longer...He asked about santa...and I told him that I wouldnt be able to afford all the presents under the tree..

Now before you get on my case for my lying...My son knows about the fact we are at war. that I have lost friends that I wrote to. So am I wrong for wanting him to remain a kid about some stuff??

Posted by on Aug. 29, 2012 at 7:25 PM
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steelcrazy
by Emerald Member on Aug. 29, 2012 at 7:27 PM

I've never told my kids, they came to me when they no longer believed and told me so.  At that point, there is no reason in denying it.  Why would you want to tell him the truth now if he still believes?

brittani
by on Aug. 29, 2012 at 7:28 PM
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I won't tell him. I'll let him figure it out on his own
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Connorsmommy13
by Bronze Member on Aug. 29, 2012 at 7:29 PM

I dont plan on telling him...but some think I am being a bad mom for letting him belive a lie I forgot to mention I didnt buy all the stuff under the tree, some was given to me so when I said "I couldnt afford all that" its the truth.

M4LG5
by Gold Member on Aug. 29, 2012 at 7:32 PM

i don't plan on telling them until they come to me.  My 9 year old still believes....I think.  I think she is the type of person that may find out but still wants to believe and may not tell me that she knows.  haha

rockabillybetty
by Member on Aug. 29, 2012 at 7:34 PM
I dont plan on telling them..i have time to think of wat to say when and if they do ask abt them
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frndlyfn
by Gold Member on Aug. 29, 2012 at 7:47 PM
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We do not make a big deal about it nor do i plan on telling her anything.  She is 6 and believes still.  Heck I am in my 30s and i believe in the concept even though they do not come for me anymore.

lorililly
by Member on Aug. 29, 2012 at 7:47 PM

yes i tell my kids about them all.. but what i did about Santa, they know that their father and I get their gifts.. but i told them if they want we could play pretend as long as you know the truth. so we do the whole play pretend Santa and etc. things..

Eviesmommy
by Bronze Member on Aug. 29, 2012 at 7:51 PM

I will tell them when they come to me and ask, be it at 7 or at 17. Plain and simple.

jaytee
by Jen on Aug. 29, 2012 at 7:52 PM
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So, you're telling me they aren't real?!
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_Mrs.H_
by Bronze Member on Aug. 29, 2012 at 8:01 PM
My mom never came out and told me they weren't real. I will do the same.
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