Hi, I just joined and said I would be posting for advice about my daughter. Well here it goes: My daughter was born in August of 2005, when I was amost 19 years old. She was my everything, and still is. Trouble is.. I have 2 other daughters and a son on the way, and since I've had other kids, I kind of feel like maybe I pushed Harley (my oldest) to grow up a little fast. I miss time I used to get to spend with her, and want to do that now, I really just don't know how to relate to her very well. She is just like I was when I was little... very mouthy and I'm sometimes at a loss for words as to what to say or do about her back talk and rude comments. She makes comments such as "you don't care about me, you never did!" Not yelling, or crying, but with an attitude.. rolling the eyes, swinging the head from side to side and the whole thing. It really makes me feel like a tiny piece of ant poop because I have feeling of guilt over not spending as much quality time with each of my kids since the others came along. It kills me everytime because I know part of her MAY feel that way. Because I feel like there is a distance between us and I do not know what to do. I don't want it to get to where she feels she cant tell me anything and takes off in a direction I really don't want her to wind up going in when she's older, but I just don't know what to do now. I always swore I would never be this type of parent who has a hard time "getting" my kid and lets things go to far, but I'm afraid I may have let too much space between us. Does anyone have any advice?