We adopted two brothers that are 13 months apart. I have found out that they are both ADHD. My oldest son is 7 years old now and in 2nd grade. He was diagnosed as having ADHD and ODD in Kindergarten (5 years old), he has been with us since 7 months old. His brother was born 6 months later, he is now 6 years old and in 1st grade. Thay are both on meds now, but before it was so difficult to handle them. So we have our hands full. It has been hard finding babysitters that can handle them and that I can trust to take care of them. Thank God I am a stay at home Mom, but some days I would like a break. Especially now that the holidays are coming. Does anybody have any suggestions as far as babysitters? Where to look? I am in Southern California. My son who has ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder) is my biggest challenge, because even so called professionals have a hard time with him. He is so independent and thinks he is in charge of everything. He has gotten a 100% better since being on the meds, but still a challenge sometimes.