Back story- I have watched my nephew mon-fri since he was 6 weeks old. For the past 3 years it was my nephew and his sister who is 3 months younger then my son. Since my nephew has been old enough to touch my sons toys my son has hated him. I have a 4 month old daughter so for a long time my son was an only child. They just butt head constantly. My nephew is the youngest of four and the only boy and only child my sister and her husband share. My nephew isn't at my house for more then 10 minutes before my son is being mean to him. He isn't mean to any other kid or even his sister but he is cruel to my nephew. Today we were at the grocery store and as I was opening the freezer my son bumps my nephew and I end up hitting my nephew with the freezer door. My nephew is just as mean to my son but more of doing things to make my son mad so he gets in trouble. I've never heard my son say things like "I hate" before
I don't know what to do!! I've punished, I've asked what the problem is!!! I can't figure it out!!! I know now its worse because I had my daughter in July and my son started kindergarten in sept. so not only do I share my attention but he's away from me all day and he's jealous that I "spend all my time" with the baby and jordan(my nephew) but we drive my nephew home right after my son gets off the bus.