Ok so my husband and I run a very strict household and two things I do not tolerate at all is lieing and attitude. My 12 year old daughters friend has had a habit of lieing to everyone . Not just little lies but lies that could ruin people's lives. She has a bad home life so my daughter feels badly for her and befriended here. We have welcomed her into are home trying to give her a piece of normal. Well a couple weeks ago she wanted to come over but we had plans and it wasn't a good time. Instead of excepting that she lied to Taylor and her dad and my husband and I in order to try and go with us to my parents house. When we caught her in the lie she gave us a ton of attitude......we immediately took her home. Then had a talk with our daughter about guilty by association and that we wanted her to steer clear of this girl. When my daughter explained to the girl that she was angry about being lied to and that wasn't how friends behaved . She also explained that both she and her parents felt it was better they don't hang out .
Well the girls fathered called and spoke to my husband and asked us to reconsider . That he felt our daughter and our family would be a good influence on her. My worry is she will get our daughter into trouble or be a bad influence on her. The girl was fully aware of our rules and this not the first time she's been caught lieing to us. What would you guys do?
on Jan. 2, 2013 at 9:37 AM