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My afternoon at the park(little bit added)

It all started okay...then my son came to me crying caring a shovel (he had found it weeks ago) I ask him what happend he said boy A hit him with it and wanted to take it home. Before I could respond boy A came running up saying that I need to tell my son that he can not take it home..

My son turns to him and says "you didnt have to hit me with it" Boy A flips saying my son punched him and asked me . what I planned to do about it before I could ask my son what happened boy A FLIPS...telling me that I need to  ground my son and that he is a bad kid and I should be ashamed. This point he has turned on the water works.

So now I have two crying boys. I asked the older one how old he is he responed 10 so I said to him that he needed to calm down so I could get the story he turns to me "why should I you are just a F'ing A'hole just like your brat of a son" I gasped he turns to me and growls...yes GROWLS! Then stromed off...after admiting that my son did not punch him just pushed him when he started to hit him with the shovel. So I went "so to get you to stop" he repiled "yeah I guess"

So the shovel went in the garbage which really upset my son but felt it needed to be done...so yeah that was my day!

Yes my son was discplined (time out) for pushing the other boy, the shovel did go in the garbage and he lost his wii for two days!

by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 7:04 PM
Replies (11-17):
Connorsmommy13
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:05 PM

 


Quoting LoveMyLos:

where the hell was the other kids mother? wow what a horrid child.


 I have no idea...think he is in daycare!

LoveMyLos
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:06 PM

im sorry but i wouldve found out who he belonged to. thats ridiculous that he has kind of mouth on him for a ten yr old.

Quoting Connorsmommy13:



Quoting LoveMyLos:

where the hell was the other kids mother? wow what a horrid child.


 I have no idea...think he is in daycare!


M4LG5
by Gold Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:09 PM


Quoting Connorsmommy13:



Quoting Rbrown72707:

So you punished your son for defending himself?  Hmmm...

The school has a strict no voilence act...so he has been told by everyone that he has to use his words more. And he should have come to me when the other boy wouldnt share the shovel. My son is very impulsive like me but the school doesnt put up with it so he needs to learn to use his words.

Just trying to prepare him for the real world.


He was defending himself.  If any of my daughters are being hit by anything or anyone, I would ABSOLUTELY be okay with them pushing back to get them off of them.  The only thing i would tell them what to do is yell "STOP" over and over and over again so others can hear.

Also, why take it away for good?  It's not like he abused it.  Sure, take it away temporarily but give it back to him.

LilyFlair
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:09 PM


Quoting LoveMyLos:

where the hell was the other kids mother? wow what a horrid child.

Im sure he learned it from his "mother"

LoveMyLos
by on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:20 PM

right?! sad.

Quoting LilyFlair:


Quoting LoveMyLos:

where the hell was the other kids mother? wow what a horrid child.

Im sure he learned it from his "mother"


Connorsmommy13
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2013 at 8:31 PM

 


Quoting M4LG5:


Quoting Connorsmommy13:

 

 

Quoting Rbrown72707:

So you punished your son for defending himself?  Hmmm...

The school has a strict no voilence act...so he has been told by everyone that he has to use his words more. And he should have come to me when the other boy wouldnt share the shovel. My son is very impulsive like me but the school doesnt put up with it so he needs to learn to use his words.

Just trying to prepare him for the real world.

 

He was defending himself.  If any of my daughters are being hit by anything or anyone, I would ABSOLUTELY be okay with them pushing back to get them off of them.  The only thing i would tell them what to do is yell "STOP" over and over and over again so others can hear.

Also, why take it away for good?  It's not like he abused it.  Sure, take it away temporarily but give it back to him.

Both boys were fighting over the shovel so figured it would be better...I might of over reacted but its over.

 

woliung8153
by on Feb. 6, 2013 at 6:41 AM
That 10 year Olds mouth is ridiculous. Sorry your son was bullied.
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