It all started okay...then my son came to me crying caring a shovel (he had found it weeks ago) I ask him what happend he said boy A hit him with it and wanted to take it home. Before I could respond boy A came running up saying that I need to tell my son that he can not take it home..
My son turns to him and says "you didnt have to hit me with it" Boy A flips saying my son punched him and asked me . what I planned to do about it before I could ask my son what happened boy A FLIPS...telling me that I need to ground my son and that he is a bad kid and I should be ashamed. This point he has turned on the water works.
So now I have two crying boys. I asked the older one how old he is he responed 10 so I said to him that he needed to calm down so I could get the story he turns to me "why should I you are just a F'ing A'hole just like your brat of a son" I gasped he turns to me and growls...yes GROWLS! Then stromed off...after admiting that my son did not punch him just pushed him when he started to hit him with the shovel. So I went "so to get you to stop" he repiled "yeah I guess"
So the shovel went in the garbage which really upset my son but felt it needed to be done...so yeah that was my day!
Yes my son was discplined (time out) for pushing the other boy, the shovel did go in the garbage and he lost his wii for two days!