My son has been my world for the past 6 years. For 5 of those he was my only child and I had NO problems getting him to listen. He has always been a very respecting child, says yes/ no ma'am/sir, no thank you, please and thank you...etc. He used to live on eating beans and rice. I had my daughter a year ago and I feel like I have a one year old and a three year old. He seems to not listen no matter what I do. He throws fits, says hes scared of the dark, doesnt want to eat ANYTHING. I am so aggitated just trying to get him to eat and get showered at the end of a full day I feel like I am going to pull my hair out. I have noticed my temper getting shorter and shorter at the end of the day and I end up snapping and yelling not only at him but my husband when he says something I dont agree with. I hate being like this and I want my good child back. Please help me.