So my 5 yr old son has been having focus and behavior problems at school. we will start with his focus. his focus last about 5 mins. rather at home or school. if something looks to hard he will totally give up and theres nothing any1 can do to bring him back. ex: Lastnight he was working on his math homework, (its done on the computer) he got an answer wrong, flipped out and i could not motivate him to focus again. I am working with his teacher on this and it has gotten a little better. Im nerves that this will effect his chances of learning anything. the weird thing is that other times he can do the same problem another day with no problems.... ok so that's the focus issue. the behavior problem kinda relates to his focus. His listening skills are just not there. He argues with everything including with his teacher. He gets so upset when u try to explain why what he is saying isn't right and he will try to over talk you. he has gotten many light changes at school due to this. Im not sure how to go about fixing this. is this a discipline issue, or a communication problem?