You all have been very helpful to me and given me good advice. Yes I am pro corporal punishment in the school. (Please dont bash)
The principal gave oss 2 licks for not following directions and making a 63 on an open book math test. I had emailed the principal and he said he would talk to oss. He paddled him (2 licks).
When OSS got home Dh talked to him about it and I was listening. I THINK he realizes how serious this is (we'll see). DH said he didnt realize that he was going to paddle him but he was glad he did because OSS needed his attention to be gotten.
There was a change in OSS last night and he did his homework no problem no crying no whining.
I hope that he begins to do well. I got permission from DH last night to get him an appt to start tesing for ADD or any other disability (which we dont think he has). But we want to rule it out.
After this post I may be kicked out but I did want to thank you all for your support.