How do you convince a 10 year old to wear a bra?
I have been struggling for months to get my 10 year old DD to wear a bra, especially at school where her uniform includes a white blouse. Although she is clearly developing and increasingly "needs" a bra, she never wears one voluntarily. If I (or another family member) points out that her "developments" are showing, she will grudgingly put on a sweater or layer with a tanktop.
During the winter it hasn't been much of an issue because she has been wearing sweaters almost every day. However, according to her teacher, she has sometimes taken off the sweater due to overheating (possibly to the delight of the curious boys in her class, grrr...). With temperatures starting to warm up, she's not going to want to wear the sweater, and probably not a tanktop either.
I was hoping this would be a "phase" that would have passed by now, but we had another big argument about this today. I have tried getting every type of bra imaginable; she just doesn't want to wear one. I can't stand to argue about this every single day; I just can't.