What do you think? Does he deserve his school money??
Daddy and I promised the kids money for good grades as an extra motivation. my 10 year old Daniel has the best grades but his behavior in class has worsened the last months.
He laughs when he gets scolded, he is aware he is smart so if another kid gives a wrong answer he pokes fun of it, calling them dtupid or dumb in the MIDDLE OF THE CLASS which of course makes the kid feel terrible and everyone laughs among other things
I say he does not deserve the grades money. I was bullied in class so i have talked clearly and many times about how poking fun of others is wrong and can make a kid feel terrible. I do not aprove this behavior at all and I say he does not deserve a penny
BUT daddy says conduct was not a part of the original deal (we didnt need to add it to the deal then) and we should punish him with something other than the $$ for the grades... and modify the deal from now on.
What do you think?? ...