I decided today to have a small egg hunt in my house for ds tomorrow. I invited 3 other kids over to look for eggs too (the kids belong to ds's dad's friends). I text one of the moms letting her know about the egg hunt. She started asking how many eggs I got, am I going to say each kid can only have x amount, and can parents help. I told here I got 40 eggs and no to the other two things. She then texts me saying how her son needs help because he's not good at these things. He's 8 going on 9 and does have some sort of intellectual disability (not sure what). Am I wrong in thinking that letting her help is unfair and isn't really teaching her son anything? Of course I won't let one kid have 20 eggs and another have 2, but at the same time it's meant to be a little fun thing. Why does everything need to be fair for everyone? We're not going to be the best at everything and that's ok.