Ok so I have a daughter that is having troubles with a couple of kids at school we will call one X and one Y she has been friends with X since preschool and they do a lot of stuff together but my daughter has never stayed anywhere besides her grandma's because she has some medical issues and hates others seeing her take so many meds. K well she is almost done with the third grade now and she has x over to spend the night one night and x was begging her to spend the night at x's house. My daughter refused and came to me crying that she was begging and would not stop what should she do, I said true friends do not peer pressure you and I thought that my other kids were playing with X so she did not hear us talking well she did and she got mad at my daughter for ME saying true friends dont do that stuff. K so the next time she came over she kept asking my daughter to go walking around town (mind you we have new people coming into town everyday and the oil field trucks run right in front of my house). So I said no and after she left my daughter came to me and said X said she you and your mom's dumb rules. So I went and told the mom about the kid pressuring my daughter and then I went the other time and ASKED her what her feelings were on her kid and my daughter were running around town and she said NO not happening. I told her that her child thought my rule was dumb. The next day at school X told my daughter not to tell me but she is not allowed to come to my house because I keep going to her mom. Now Y started hanging out here and she was over this past monday and she asked my daughter to her house Tuesday after school. Well Tuesday Y goes to my daughter and says nobody can come over today because I am with my dad and he has plans with me and X ended up going home with Y. This really hurt my daughter and so then I had to go to the store where unfortunatly X's mom works and I was in a bad mood because my daughter was hurt. I was supposedly glaring at X's mom and so now X told my daughter I can not come over to your house for a year now because your mom was glaring at my mom. Now the rest of the week X has been making Y ignore my daughter and that Y is not allowed to show my daughter something that X gave her. Should I go to the mother again? My daughter said she don't want me to because this girl will just keep getting worse if I do. Now Y told my daughter on Thursday she was grounded from friend's because of something that X did and blamed Y. I don't know if it is true I was not there but now X and Y are spending the night together tonight. Advice please.