So my son is 5 and he is all excited about getting ready to go to kindergarden next year... but the problem is he keeps pooping and peeing in his pants and i dont know what to do. i will ask him why he does it and he tells me eaither he didnt want to go, he wanted to go potty in his pants or nothing at all. i have tryed taking spechial toys away and him earning them back then when he gets them back he keeps doing it or he will just keep going potty in his pants but wont earn toy back. so i stopped that snd tried to just do a time out for a 5 minuite period and adding everytime he went potty in his pants. but then i get to a timeout of 30 minuites and then its just seems rediculus so idk what to do i feel helpless and frankly i dont think he is ready for kindergarden not only becosue of the potty issue eaither he has a hard time keeping a sandwitch together.. he has a hard time communicating... he will do what you ask of him but only after he throws and fit or crys about the task hes asked to do. he has been in a program sense he was 3 for his speech and development becsoue his biological mother neglected him.. this can go on i just am lost hear and needing a mothers help. please.