My 8 y/o dd is starting 3d grade next year. Here in our district, that means a new school. Also, she has been placed in a gifted enrichment program that's held @ a different school one day a week, so two new schools & routines to get used to. She is sometimes shy & quiet, & easily intimidated. Also, I know she is bright, but I'll say it was a pleasant surprise when we got the notice about placing her in the program. She seems eager for the challenge, & I definintely don't wanna discourage her or overwhelm her either. How will I know if it becomes too much for her?