After having kids when did you find your normal?
After the hard work of getting the family started, have you reached a place where you feel a sense of normal. The normal is something like this: happy with the routine, happy with the kids growth , return to manageable life with friends, family and work. About how many years did it take to get there. I have to kids, 6 and 4. I feel like in about 2 years after the youngest is in full time school, that a sense of normal will reside, or am I dreaming?