Dh found out he was overdrawn, so he called to find out why. It turns out dd signed up for Club Penguin and somehow got dhs debit card number. She has been asking dh for his credit card # for weeks and saying they won't charge it, but we explained to her many times that yes indeed they will. Dh has decided that she will get nothing more for back to school shopping(we got her a backpack this past monday before we knew what she was doing). I am grounding her for an undetermined amount of time, she had a beach trip coming up this Saturday she will not be going now at all and I am debating on whether I will let her go to the Job's Daughters picnic that will be on the 17th of August. And of course she will be banned from the computer unless it is school related. I am really at a loss of why she would do that, It makes me sad to think she thought this was okay. She is 10.So she just got home and I confronted her about it, at first she tried to act like it was an accident Than she tried to pin it on her brother, but I know when she is lying, so she fessed up to getting into Daddys card. I told her she is grounded for a month, no computer unless it's school related(school starts the 14th) No beach trip and she would be doing things around the house to work off her debt. I had her call dh to apologize for using his card without his permission and now she is crying in her room.