He received and S- in conduct with the side note that he has trouble focusing and staying on task. She also noted he needs constant redirection and is quite often disruptive. But he is sometimes mastering the skills needed in some subjects and in a few he is more often than not mastering the skills so he's not falling extremely behind yet. But last year he would maybe have one ticket pulled a week at school.
I have scheduled a meeting with his teacher tomorrow to discuss his work and behavior. But a little back story: since he started K his great grandfather died, his grandparents divorce, his dad has been to jail twice, he has a new brother (me and dh of 4 years) and his uncle passed as well. He started wetting the bed over the summer and has been in therapy since July.
I've decided to take a parenting class (suggestions are welcome) because no matter what way we discipline him it seems to never affect him. And on the flip side no matter how we reward him it doesn't seem to work either. We've also decided that he will not be going over to his dad's parents house as often. In their grief they've began asking if Jordan can come over nearly every day on top of what formal visitation they already have in our custody agreement.
I guess I'm just looking for moms who have dealt with this or advice from other moms who have suggestions. I'm a very young mom and I'm always looking for suggestions. Sorry if I'm rambling. I currently feel like I'm majorly failing!