My daughter was a wonderful helpful sweet girl. She did great through headstart, was a "big helper" in Kindergarden.... Her behavoir took a giant nose dive this year for no apparent reason, She started not wanting to go to school, Telling lies, and being violent to her siblings, She refuses to do homework no matter how I approch it. She will tamtrum and scream about the work being "too hard" and that we are "picking on her" I found out just recently that she is doing this to her teacher also and has gotten three white slips in the office for definance and unrulling behavor as well as not listening and running off. She seems to have taken a firm mind set that things will go "her way" or not happen at all. I have exhausted the tools the school has given me to try and correct this, I have sat and tryed to talk to her, (She slapped my face and screamed at me that "It's not HER fault, that everyone is making fun of her") the thing is NO ONE is making fun of her we are worried about her and want to help, She just fights us and wont listen. She has fallen behind in class now and isolated herself from friends with this behavor. It breaks my heart because I truely don't know what to do. Does anyone on here have any idea what could help or what might be going on??
I came to find out from a child in my daughters former class that the teacher was singaling my daughter out on some things. Such as they had done a project in class and apparently my daughter had donr it in her "own" way. The teacher had felt a need to point out what my child had done wrong. Accourding to this other child and their mother whom had brought him to my home, she had done this sevral times to my daughter. =( I removed my child from that class and finished the year with her on home school. She seemed to calm down a lot after that. But this year when I re enrolled her in school (Yes she made up all her work and got into the 2nd grade) she was still very reclusive at first. Her new teacher after talking to her about what happened she has done a great job in helping my daughter feel usful and smart and important even. =) I am very proud to report shes doing so much better and her temparment is improved 1000 fold. Shes so much happier. Thank you all for your advice and aide.